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Joe Hager
August 18, 1977 - December 17, 2023

Place of Birth: Tucumcari, New Mexico
Residence: Ross, North Dakota
Age: 46

Joe Hager was born to Gary and Billie Hager on August 14, 1977; their anniversary was also this day. Gary was on his way to bring Billie some flowers at home. They must have passed each other on the highway because she was on her way to the hospital. Gary threw the flowers into the fridge and ran to the hospital. On arriving and finding that he had a new son, Billie asked why he didn’t bring her the flowers.

Joe was the third of four and the second to be diagnose with the double recessive disease Spinal Muscular Atrophy. This is where the nerves do not conduct information for movement to the body moving muscles very well. This disease in many ways shaped Joe into the man that he became. His parents always told him that he could do anything that he set his mind to, so that is exactly what he did. He finished high school in advance classes, went to a four-year university without his parents for a semester, received his Associates degree in Drafting, got a full-time job, got married, had children, and ensured that he helped anyone know that despite his physical limitations, his mind was never limited.

One of the best examples of his no limitation mindset was his final project for his drafting degree, the assignment was to draw something in 3-D, he asked if he could draw a rose, the teacher said that was too hard. Joe promptly drew twelve roses on a table, this drafting drawing is still hanging in the department 30 years later showing students that anything is possible.

Joe loved to give small children rides on his chair, be it his feet, lap, or the small wheels on the back. He played Taxi and raced with kids and helped them learn never to be afraid of people who where different.

Joe met his wife in January of 2006, started dating her in February, proposed by May, and Married in July. Joe and Rebecca were married in the Lubbock Texas Temple of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints on July 15, 2006. Rebecca remembers first seeing him in that exact temple when she was only 16 years old. He was all in white and looked very handsome.

When Joe became a father, he taught his children to be safe by riding on his chair or holding on to his chair to cross streets or walk through busy stores. His youngest would take naps in the middle of the day right on his lap strapped to his chest with his own safety belts if the family was out an about.

He instilled the love of chess, computers, art and drawing, and compassionate care on all of his children and they will never forget it. He is a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints.

Joe is survived by his wife, Rebecca Hager; his children, Kilah, Derrick, and Xavier Hager; father, Gary Hager; brother, Stoney Hager, and youngest sister; Shannon Alexander.

He is preceded in death by his mother, Billie Hager; and older sister, Kelley Hager.

Memorial Contribution
In Liue of Flowers Please make a Donation to Spinal Muscular Dystrophy research in Joe's Name.

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Jeff and Rhonda Stachler (Cooperstown, ND)
Dec 18, 2023
We are so sorry to hear of the passing of Joe! It was so wonderful to visit with Joe at so many meeting he attended with you! He is a special man. May God take his soul to heaven and provide you and the families with strength and courage!
Emily Burkett (Carpio, ND)
Dec 18, 2023
I am so sorry to hear the passing of an amazing young man who impacted many. I especially enjoyed getting to know Joe at conferences. He truly radiated love for his family. He will be greatly missed.
Katie Henry
Dec 18, 2023
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, Rebecca! Joe will be missed at meetings. He was definitely a part of the Extension family, too.
Sarah (Lovett) Heath (Duncan, OK)
Dec 18, 2023
Oh Hager family my heart hurts for your loss! Joe was so loved and was a good friend to me through my whole life. He will be missed. Many many prayers and much love to you all!
David and Sarah Mitchell (Harker Heights, TX)
Dec 18, 2023
You're kind soul will be missed. Grateful for the resurrection and look forward to seeing you then.
Glen Mitchell (Amarillo, Texas)
Dec 18, 2023
Joe is a hero to our family.
He saved the life of our youngest. He spotted her at the bottom of the pool and struggled to get away from the person that was holding him afloat to get to her. His shouting and struggle created enough noise that she was pulled out and resuscitated.
Heidi Foster (Bixby, Oklahoma)
Dec 18, 2023
Joe was a good friend that we considered family. He always had words to uplift and comfort and was not afraid to also give the tough love. He had a great sense of humor too and my husband and I enjoyed every conversation with him. He will be greatly missed!
Lindsey Larsen (Salt Lake City , Utah)
Dec 18, 2023
I’m so sorry for your loss! All the love to you and your wonderful children.
Ben and Ana Adams family (Lehi, UT )
Dec 18, 2023
We are so sorry for the loss of Joe, he is a great man and an inspiration to many. May the Lord's blessings be upon you all at this difficult time.
George and Kim Adams (Lehi, Utah)
Dec 19, 2023
We are going to miss Joe and great sense of humor. He could always make us laugh. How grateful we are to have all the memories we do have of him. Sending prayers of comfort to your family at this time. We love you.
Metta Pfliger (Hazen, ND)
Dec 19, 2023
I was shocked and so saddened to hear of Joe's passing. I am so very sorry for your loss and send my sincerest sympathies.

There was so much to Joe. I wish I could have had more time to get to see more layers. In one day at camp, he went from helping me with my computer to being a BBQ pit boss. No lie. I will never forget his patient manner in regard to his disability. He said "They'll figure it out.", meaning once you got to know him you would see the whole person. He was absolutely brilliant and had so much to give. I'm honored to have known him and better for it.
Madeleine Smith (Grand Forks, North Dakota)
Dec 19, 2023
So sad to hear of Joe's passing.. You are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
Holly M. Arnold (Minot, ND)
Dec 19, 2023
Rebecca, I was saddened to hear of Joe's passing. Our paths didn't cross very often but when they did I enjoyed visiting with him. He was so positive and I appreciated his humor. I was blessed to know him, even if just a bit.
Lisa Pederson
Dec 19, 2023
Rebecca and Family

Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Losing a loved one during the holiday season is hard- I know from experience. Please keep your wonderful memories of Joe close to your hearts and he’ll never be far.

I’ll miss Joe at Extension events. I so enjoyed visiting with him

Love and prayers

Lisa Pederson
NDSU Extension
Livestock & Beef Quality Specialist
Angie Johnson (Galesburg, ND)
Dec 19, 2023
Rebecca and family,
My heart breaks for your loss, as losing a loved one is never easy. May you find strength and peace during this difficult time. Please lean on your family, which includes your Extension family. We will always be here for you.
DAVE GUNNELL (WEST VALLEY CITY, UT 84119, UT)
Dec 28, 2023
I worked with Joe at Granite Mill for a few years.
He always had answers to my questions.
A great man and a pleasure to work with.
He was always upbeat and had a positive outlook.
It is a pleasure to have known him.
Todd and Lynne Dixon (Findlay, OH)
Jan 1, 2024
We are so sorry to learn of Joe’s passing.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
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